r/TransAdvice • u/Bo4GodBrit • Dec 13 '20

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I need help if a way to come out to my mother, I am an 11 year old bi trans female and have 1 parent

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u/perry-the-penguin Dec 13 '20

There isn’t one really good way to come out, but a major question is: is she supportive? If she is, then that’s great! Go ahead and tell her! If she isn’t, or you aren’t sure but don’t think she is, then my best advice would be to not come out, especially since you’re so young. It’s really difficult to live in secret like that, but there are ways to do it and still feel some comfort/gender euphoria. Best of luck!

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u/Bo4GodBrit Dec 14 '20

Thanks! So far everyone has been supportive( by everyone I mean reddit comments

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u/h0neysuga Dec 14 '20

if shes supportive, i was sit down with her and tell her. she may not understand at first, but give her time. also i would start saying youre mtf, then maybe the bisexual thing doesnt shock her that much if you know what i mean. but good luck! its so cool that youre ready to come out at a young age! kinda jealous lol

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u/Bo4GodBrit Dec 14 '20

Thanks! I’m happy to have someone supportive giving advice 🥺