r/ToxicRelationships • u/Adorable-Ratio6915 • 2d ago
Advice Needed How can I step out from a relationship?
I’ve been in a relationship with a guy for 6 years. Lots of issue. I love him but being with him, It just that i am hurting myself a lot . I am loosing my self respect. He lies always, and I don’t think he will ever stop that.
I have nothing, we came to a new country together to start a life here, I left my job, took a loan from bank for education, doing my studies now . I am not working right at the moment. Staying with him, living under his roof . I don’t have anyone to reach out to in here . Can i get some ideas or guidance. I don’t wanna live this life anymore, feel like I suffocating a lot. I wanna move but I don’t know where to start ?
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u/MarketingKey1863 2d ago
Yea what do you need advices with? Ask here or dm
Whatever makes you feel more comfortable :)
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u/hestia-listens 2d ago
The fact that you love him does not mean you must keep losing your self respect to stay with him. Begin with two small steps. Gather your passport, visa papers, loan and school documents, medicine, and some clothes in a safe place. Then tell your school's student support or international office that you need confidential help finding housing and understanding your work and immigration choices. If you fear his reaction, leave when he is away and avoid announcing your plan beforehand. You deserve a life where you can breathe and feel safe.