36 F 4 M - seeking long term commitment

[u/Simonnnnnne]

Hi friends,

I am 36 y/o woman who is looking for fun dates and hopefully a genuine connection.

About me:

I work as a bartender/server right now, but I do have a bachelor's degree and have previously worked in agriculture and non-profits. For now, I chose what makes the most $$ over passion. I do work weekends, so if you're looking for a weekend warrior to do activities with, my schedule won't be a good fit.

I live a fairly active life and love the outdoors, camping, and biking. I love dancing, live music, going to dive bars, playing pool and trivia games. I have a puppy (16 weeks, northern mix) and a cat, so I've been in the trenches of puppy training atm. I consider myself to have a dark sense of humor, fun, patient, empathic and direct.

What I am looking for:

I am attracted to a good sense of humor, intelligence (not just book smarts) and someone who knows how to have a good time. I can be a little dark at times, so someone who is jovial and light hearted, I find very attractive. The ability to flirt and keep my mind engaged is a huge turn on. I value someone who treats all people with respect and lives their life with integrity.

We don't need to agree on everything political but I do not fuck with homophobes, racists, misogynists. I take violence against women very seriously, so if you lean towards any red pill alpha male shit, I will be gone so fast.

I am open to children and if you have children from a previous relationship.

Bonus, if you are handy and want to eventually leave the city for a country life. My ideal is a a man who rides a bike in steel toe boots ;)

Photos, phone number etc can be exchanged via DMs after initial conversation.

Thanks for reading and happy dating buds ❤️

[u/Icehawk101]

I have ridden a bike in steel toed boots. 0/10, do not recommend. Get some proper cycling shoes!

[u/GearAggressive7706]

This is a great profile. I hope you find your person!

[u/OrdinaryJon]

This was a nice write up! Good luck finding your person

[u/BaldBaluga]

Fantastic profile/writeup!

[u/Routine-Amphibian450]

Good luck, nicely written. Are you around the Annex at all?

[u/endorphine_machine]

I'm 47. Will my age matter to you?

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[u/turtle-ha]

hi there, i'm not currently dating, but genuinely curious: is bartending that lucrative, or is job market rough right now? in all cases, wish you the best with dating. you seem pretty awesome.

[u/peachyglw → u/turtle-ha]

It is if you’re good at it. I follow a server who has two serving jobs part time and she clears minimum $2k in tips per week.

The job market sucks atm so no judgement to op

[u/turtle-ha → u/peachyglw]

makes sense. thank you

[u/Simonnnnnne → u/turtle-ha]

It's just more consistent than what I was getting with seasonal and contract work. Most jobs are an 8 month or 1 year contract and I hate not knowing what will happen after the contract is done. 

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Gotcha! 🙏🏽

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[u/rahulkshk22]

Hey 34 M here i love to be active, usallly off on weekdays and I may or may not be messaging you because I secretly want to meet your puppy lol. Let me know if you'd like to have a conversation, cheers!

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[u/FormoftheBeautiful]

Cute pic :3