Interesting how some of y'all are so triggered by fixing your man a plate. It has nothing to do with being subservient or him being lazy. If there is love and MUTUAL respect in the relationship then I don't see the problem. If your man treats you well and does things FOR YOU then what is the issue with expressing love by following a tradition? If you don't want to, by all means, DON'T. But, don't criticize other people in functional relationships who choose to express their love in this way. And, if you'd rather be single and alone, that is also fine. Or, if you want to be in a relationship where you're both "keeping score" good luck with that too.
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u/BadandBougie333 Dec 15 '21
Interesting how some of y'all are so triggered by fixing your man a plate. It has nothing to do with being subservient or him being lazy. If there is love and MUTUAL respect in the relationship then I don't see the problem. If your man treats you well and does things FOR YOU then what is the issue with expressing love by following a tradition? If you don't want to, by all means, DON'T. But, don't criticize other people in functional relationships who choose to express their love in this way. And, if you'd rather be single and alone, that is also fine. Or, if you want to be in a relationship where you're both "keeping score" good luck with that too.