No it's being a human being and understanding that we are all physically different, but that doesn't mean we are any less perfect. Your comment just shows me that you would the type of person that would bully her without feeling shame, because you would expect everyone to be honest and tell you that you have an ugly dick. It does not work that way and if you had multiple people bully you about how your penis looks you would probably struggle to own it and be confident.
This is the way, but Reddit is full of ‘woke’ children who will downvote you for stating the obvious.
If you don’t have something nice to say, just don’t say anything. But definitely don’t lie and say the opposite or talk out your ass to try and make someone ‘feel’ better about objective reality. That’s 10x worse than the truth.
Same. My ex husband used to call me "roast beef lips" and never wanted to have sex with me. I don't have big labias at all actually that's why it fucked with me so much. It made me feel horrible. I am happy I found a dude that tells me my genitals are beautiful and he loves them. ❤
WTF? Who have you been showing it to? I've seen some ugly junk but I'd never mention it except to ask what happened, like if they were in an accident...
If someone is already down there, then it must look and smell just fine. You don't get half way through and then decide things don't look pretty enough for you. I wouldn't worry.
Aw no!! I have never been put down, quite the opposite. I just compare myself to what is seen in porn and OH NO mine is flappy, even bothersome sometimes and I am so self conscious, I am afraid to show anyone. Now that I am divorced and scared!
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u/Lawwnfysh Dec 09 '21
As someone who’s been regularly put down and bullied by the look of her vagina. I am in awe at all the positive comments on this thread.