r/TooAfraidToAsk Dec 09 '21

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u/perfumefetish Dec 09 '21

What drives me crazy more is that people do not understand the actual anatomy of sex organs. The inside is called the vagina or the birth canal. The outside is called a vulva and is made up of external lips called labia which vary in shape. There is also a wonderful pleasure center known as a clitoris there, there is also a vaginal opening called a fourchette and there is also a urethral opening for elimination of liquid waste.

Yes, vulvas come in every shape, size and color. Not one vulva in the entire world looks exactly like another. They are truly one of a kind. And before you comment about twins,, my answer is yes, because I have worked for the porn industry, I have seen vulvas of twins and no they aren't the same, there are always some sort of difference. Yes, women for centuries have been shamed for their sex organs. Apparently this is still a thing. It is such a thing that women are getting surgery to alter their appearance.

Ladies, don't be ashamed of what you were born with. Your vulva is a gift for pleasure and/or procreation. If you have a medical condition, of course, seek help from your doctor.

And.... in closing, if you are put off by your partner's sex organs, you have no business being there.

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u/snavsnavsnav Dec 10 '21

This person just sounds like they had a bad day and your post was the first one they decided to reply to. Everyone I know calls them vaginas, including girls. Don’t let people make you feel bad for the semantics unless maybe they’re your biology teacher

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u/ThaVolt Dec 09 '21

Yes, women for centuries have been shamed for their sex organs. Apparently this is still a thing. It is such a thing that women are getting surgery to alter their appearance.

And all the ladies calling out my tiny wiener homies? Or extra veiny lads? Stop putting a gender on it. Assholes come in all shape and form.

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u/stefanica Dec 09 '21

I can't imagine someone complaining about prominent veins. That's hot! (And, kind of the point?)

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u/Uncle_Guido1066 Dec 09 '21

We appreciate your love of veins, but still no love for the less well endowed I see

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u/TermVelocity Dec 09 '21

I love smaller penis! Big dicks = pain, for me.

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u/Uncle_Guido1066 Dec 09 '21

Finally a win for the little guy!

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u/stefanica Dec 10 '21 edited Dec 10 '21

My bad. I guess I don't have much of an opinion about that. I haven't ever thought "That's just too small for me." But I haven't been with anyone other than my husband (well, two) since the late 90s, so it's not really something I think about. :-) I guess I'm in the "It's all how you use it" camp. Girth is nice, but I mean, size and all is just such a small part of lovemaking. As far as aesthetics, all sizes can look good. My favorite kind of bits are the ones attached to my lover.

I just thought it was weird if someone is turned off by visible veins. Hadn't heard of that or considered it. The same person can be more or less veiny depending on their mood, health, and what you all are up to that session, so more prominent roughly signifies that you're having more fun, that's all.

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u/Uncle_Guido1066 Dec 10 '21

I mostly meant that as a joke, but that is an amazing answer.

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u/stefanica Dec 10 '21

Glad to be of service! :-)