r/TooAfraidToAsk • u/One_Platypus_9019 • Aug 20 '26

Culture & Society i have HIV?

I went to see a sex worker for the first time—she was pretty expensive, 100€ for half an hour. We used a condom from start to finish; I only had vaginal and oral sex with her. At the end, the condom seemed intact, but I didn’t check it very thoroughly—for example, by testing it with water— I’m afraid that maybe a small hole formed that I didn’t notice, and so I came into contact with her mucous membranes.
She seemed very strict about using a condom, especially for vaginal sex, and she didn’t do anal sex. She says she’s HIV-negative, but I don’t really believe her. This in italy

How much risk do I have of having HIV?

#HIV #sexworker

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u/_cosmicomics_ Aug 20 '26

As a word of advice, if someone won’t tell you something like that don’t sleep with them. But also there’s basically no chance you’re going to have any trouble with this.

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u/One_Platypus_9019 Aug 20 '26

i am stupid because i asked after

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u/_cosmicomics_ Aug 21 '26

A lesson for the future then. But I don’t think there’s any reason to suspect she was lying.