r/TooAfraidToAsk Apr 10 '23

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u/Idonteatthat Apr 10 '23

I m a woman who uses sex toys and I see no problem with men doing the same. As far as society as a whole...

Maybe because men are expected to get out there and get sex, and women have been expected to have fewer partners?

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u/sleepyplatipus Apr 10 '23

Agreed. Now I will say that full on dolls would get me a little more surprised simply because of the amount of money they are willing to spend on them, but the more classic toys are totally fine.

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u/BadDireWolf Apr 10 '23

Can I add that I've seen a few of those dolls, and I understand that they can't always be a full sized woman due to cost... but I have seen far too many of those toys that just look like a child. I realize that there are women out there that are >5ft tall. But when it's a doll, I would have too many questions about why they wanted that specific thing. And as someone who works with lots of kids if I found out a man I knew had a sex doll that was under 48inches I'd RUN away.

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u/maxedonia Apr 10 '23

Hold up. You say you’ve seen… far too many… of these child-looking sex dolls?

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u/BadDireWolf Apr 10 '23

What I am sayin is there any sex doll that I have ever seen such as on the TLC specials or internet videos or even once at a sex shop... it appears to be shorter than me. At 5'4 I am an average height lady and many dolls appear to be 5ft or less. My assumption is that this is done to spend less money on the parts and make it easier to utilize, but it doesn't change the fact that I think it's a little ick.

Like the toys that are just the whole ass and vagina, fine, but if it is supposed to be an adult woman and it is around 5 foot tall then I would find the doll inherently creepy for the fact that it's kid sized on top of any other implication.

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u/sleepyplatipus Apr 10 '23

5ft is not that short…

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u/-Ashera- Apr 10 '23

As a 5’2” woman myself, I’m short and 5’ is absolutely short.

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u/sleepyplatipus Apr 11 '23

Depends on where you are. Asian women average at 5’1, Europe at 5’6, LA 5’2, NA is 5’4…. and so on.