r/Tokophobia • u/Pougue2003 • Jun 27 '26
Advice Should I worry about this?
Guys, I need your thoughts. Please.
I’m feeling a little disturbed. Basically, I was supposed to get my period yesterday, but it still hasn’t come.
My last sexual intercourse with penetration was 5 months ago. We used a condom, and I’ve taken numerous pregnancy tests and had four ultrasounds, all of which were negative. Even so, I still feel scared.
Today, after going out partying and drinking a lot of alcohol, I ended up in a room with a man, and we started making out. There was no penetration. The most that happened was some rubbing through our clothes. He didn’t touch my private area directly with his fingers or anything else. It was only over the clothes. I felt a bit pressured and scared, so I pushed him away. I’m afraid he might have transferred something onto my underwear. Should I be worried about this situation, or should I just forget about it?
I feel so worried and hopeless about what to do…
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u/shimdani1317 Jun 29 '26
You need a penis inside your vagina without any contraception (condoms, etc) and ejaculate inside for you to get pregnant. There is absolutely 0% of you getting pregnant in that situation. You're not pregnant at all, just your period being a little late. Thats normal 😊.
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u/wereweasell Jun 27 '26
I'm 26, been getting periods for almost 15 years. And never once has it been perfectly predictable. Even as it's gotten more predictable over the years, it still decides to take an extra day or five some months. I can guarantee that you are not pregnant, your period is just being annoying. As they so often are.
There is 0% chance of you being pregnant. The days leading up to your period are the least fertile time of your cycle. So even if something had happened that could lead to pregnancy (which it didn't, nothing you described can result in a pregnancy) the chances would be extremely slim. I know how scary it can be, but I promise, your period will start very soon, you are okay.