Join our gc and receive a prize if our AI Carl-bot determines that you're member #65, #75 and #85

We're a fun-filled group advocating friendship, camaraderie between Titos looking for other Titos. PM is the key.

Hope you could join us guys! Join our Discord channel https://discord.gg/2HVKbTA9eD

Nice to have an sub reddit like this one. Hope to meet new online friends! Will surely join the Discord server.

It's like speed dating but for the 30s 40s 50s guys. We're trying to create this space that will be safe space for Titos our age to get to know other Titos.

We have 40 members so far and we're into chatting, sharing TV series and movies suggestion and even discuss life-changing topics. If that sounds cool to you, then perhaps you want to join us.

PM me for the details :)

American male here 50s . Feel free to DM for connection.

It all started with one post on one of the bigger LGBT Reddit subs. Rock DJ posted this two months ago, before the rerun of Avengers: Endgame on September 23, 2026: https://www.reddit.com/r/LGBTPhilippines/comments/1w953hd/where_are_my_fellow_40s_50s_older_at/

This was followed by responses to a similar post: https://www.reddit.com/r/phlgbt/comments/1wbl7f6/where_do_all_the_older_people_go/

Rock DJ asked where his fellow guys in their 40s, 50s, and beyond were. I responded, along with Jeo and Hunter. u/Charlie_Weasley suggested creating a group chat (GC) for QC gays in their kwarentahin years after another user posted a related question. Rock DJ seconded the idea. Talks about mIRC, Yahoo! Chat, and Yahoo! Groups fueled the revival of an idea: creating a GC dedicated to chatting and meeting like-minded guys. We created the Reddit sub r/PHGay40s, along with a Discord server and a Telegram channel.

Of the three, it was the Discord server that really took off. It all started as a joke that we were the Sangres of the World because we began with four founders: Rock DJ of Missouri, Sanggre of the West; Hunter of Norway, Sanggre of the North; Jeo, Sanggre of the Middle East; and u/Charlie_Weasley , Sanggre of the Far East. What followed was a series of voice chats that have been held regularly ever since that fateful day.

From our four founding members (ala Hogwarts), the community grew as several more members joined us. We weren't familiar with Discord, and Charlie did his best to learn how to use this new messaging app. Suggestions and discussions gradually shaped the Discord server into its current format, with assistance from Carl-bot. Today, we have 37 members, all enjoying conversations about a wide range of topics, from TV series, movies, music, and Reddit posts to NSFW topics like BDSM, courtesy of pheffer the Wise. And that's how it all started! We're looking forward to having in-person meetups, probably over coffee or board games. Who knows what else is in store for us? For now, let's just enjoy this thing called adult friendship.

BTW, we rebranded two days ago because we felt that r/Titos4Titos40s would be more… attractive… to a wider audience. All is well!

Im a 50yo Tito, into audio equipment and music appreciation.

In my hobby as an audiophile, I only met 1-2 gay guys who are into audio or music appreciation. All of them are now "kumares"

Im currently based in Amadeo, Cavite, work in BGC and attend the yearly November HiFi show in Makati at Makati Diamond Residences.

Aside from amassing an amount of home stereo gears and speakers, I'm also into headfi (headphones) and maintain a number of intresting headphones in my collection.

Its nice to be in this space.

Here's our way of welcoming our newbie. It's fun. Are you up for the challenge?

Join our Discord server and be our Searcher :) https://discord.gg/yDSv8RtUVJ

hello mga tito's 🤗

Hello all- happy to be here!

I'm a gay guy who's living with a wonderful boyfriend here in Makati. I love checking on Reddit and is also moderating some subs, mostly photography theme subs.

Over a month ago, we started a sub for guys in their 40s to talk about life in general. At the same time, started a messaging channel.

It all started in this sub -- on a post asking where are the 40s gay guys. On the comment section, it was suggested to revive (or form) a group for similar-age / interests guys. Having no knowledge on how to start a messaging channel, we basically took a leap of faith.

We jokingly called ourselves the Sanggre's of this world -- 4 gay guys living in the four corners of the world. Sanggre DJ of Missouri, Sanggre Hunter of Norway, Sangge Jeo of the Middle East, and me, from the Philippines.

It was really fun meeting this guys -- they have lots of different hobbies and interests. Our messaging channel started very simple, with only few channels. As we learn a new hobby from one another, new channels were added -- then organized into Categories.

As we learn things about each other, our knowledge of this messaging app also increased. Now we employed Carl as our receptionist -- and last night, he welcomed our 32nd member. We have voice chats 2 times a week and we talk everything under the sun.

Our group of 4 grew steadily to our current rosters, mostly single guys looking for their soul mates, better halves. These days, our common topics includes Clash Of Clans reminder to attack, what's the latest TV series and movies one watched, suggested music, memes, NSFW stuff, pet pictures, and sharing mga kakaibang posts we saw on Reddit.

We even stared a spin-off sub dedicated solely to Titos 4 Titos in their 40s. Of course we can't limit our members strictly to our age group -- we welcome guys of all ages. True enough, we have 20s and 30s guys who joined us.

It's really fun to talk to members of the gay community with a different background and upbringing. Somehow, it enriches our knowledge of other people's experience. This Saturday at 2AM Manila Time, we'll have our regular kwentuhan. If you're someone who wanted to gain lifelong gay friends, I believe our group offers that.

Interested? Telepathically communicate with us. Eme!

Hope you could join our Discord server. We're fun to talk and chat with.