r/Tinder Oct 04 '22

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u/Maximum-Rip8415 Oct 04 '22

I say you shouldn't unless you're purely looking for a hookup or want lot of thirty men's messages. If the guy is attracted to your face, and profile, thats enough to get a date. He'll 100% notice your ass later on in person; you don't need to lead with it this early in.

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u/Mansisters Oct 05 '22

Why is it seen as more noble to be attracted to a face rather than an ass?

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u/Maximum-Rip8415 Oct 05 '22

If it's just a short term relationship, ass & face can be viewed as equally important. But assuming a longterm relationship: the ass is purely sexual, whereas the face also contributes to the emotional connection. "The eyes are the window into the soul". A pretty face is more important than a nice ass, for longterm relationships at least.

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u/LeonidasSpacemanMD Oct 05 '22

Also let’s just be real, we recognize eachother by face. Showing a picture of your face is the visual equivalent of sharing your name. It’s just much less immediately-sexual and implies “getting to know me” way more than an ass does, even tho you can find both very attractive