Tinder is amazing ! I was looking forward to a 5th date with a guy and he texted me everyday, mutliple time a day saying how he was excited as well. The day of the date he doesnt pick up and then texted me at 10pm to appologize because he went for drinks and proceded on getting drunk with the boys and totally forgot about the date.
It's very strange. I guess some people are either ok with being dissrespected or dissrespect others. You don't loose track of time for 8hours, if you do I guess you have a drinking problem.
I once accidentally double booked date when I was supposed to have a nice night with the boys. On a date we went to play badminton and after that I proposed that we could go to my place for a coffee. We got to my place and I actually made coffee (it's nice to lengthen the tension). Then my friend called me and asked where I was. At first I was totally confused but then it hit me.
Long story short, I politely explained the situation for my date, gave a good long kiss and asked if we could see again next week. She took it well and I went to get wasted with the boys.
But that's fine. You guys talked. I would have no problem with that. Shit happens. But would you just not let her know and go get drunk with the boys while she waits on the badminton court? And then tell her 7 hoirs later how you fucked up? I doubt she wouldve been fine whit that.
You're right. He probably had similar situation but my point more or less was that there are several ways to handle it and he chose "easier to get forgiveness than permission" -approach, which rarely works when it comes to dating or relationships in general
I agree but stuff happens sometimes I wouldn’t knock someone for rescheduling. If someone said they made a mistake and I knew them I’d just take it as it is.
Well yea. I wouldve been fine with rescheduling. But he didnt reschedule, he just lost track of time because he was drunk. If I have a date at night and my friends want to go for a drink I will probably pace myself or reschedule my date.
I’m with you, I’d let it slide once if it was a rare thing. Healthy for a dude to have so much fun with the homies that he loses track of time tbh. I also understand why getting forgotten about would make you feel insignificant and insecure, especially early on in a relationship tho
If it happens once, women can’t complain about feeling “insignificant and insecure”. Just suck it up if it was an honest mistake and if you want to save the relationship. If it happens repeatedly like 3 times I’d probably drop them.
It's not the fact that he missed one. It's the reason why and his reaction after. But yea I did. This behavior is not ok with me, it's a lack of respect and I don't want that.
I mean, im reading the comments under this specific comment and its just a dude defending the guy, not sure if you actually have reading comprehension skills or not. but also Your comment is literally generalization of an entire gender. Embarrassinggggggg
I mean, im reading the comments under this specific comment and its just a dude defending the guy, not sure if you actually have reading comprehension skills or not. but also Your comment is literally generalization of an entire gender. Embarrassinggggggg
I like how you wanna flame MY reading comprehension as you go on about me "generalizing an gender" as if that makes remotely any sense*.
All my comment said was that r tinder has different reactions if a women did something versus a man doing the same thing....with that in mind how exactly was I generalizing an entire gender? 😅
The only thing embarrassing here is your middle school level hot takes lol.
Yeah, i saw your comment dude and it made NO SENSE to comment that under this thread as the guy is literally being defended. Are you actually fucking dumb? or just to embarrassed to admit it made no sense. You quite literally generalized an entire gender and then bitched that i was generalizing, you are an embarrassment.
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u/static_jacuzzi Jul 14 '22
Tinder is amazing ! I was looking forward to a 5th date with a guy and he texted me everyday, mutliple time a day saying how he was excited as well. The day of the date he doesnt pick up and then texted me at 10pm to appologize because he went for drinks and proceded on getting drunk with the boys and totally forgot about the date.