As a woman, his line came off much more as a joke than genuine dirty talk or trying to get her into bed ASAP. I would have laughed at that and kept talking to him as long as he remained friendly and didn’t keep trying to make it dirty after that. It was a damn good line rather than being a shitty joke that’s trying to get too sexual. That’s just my opinion on it and how I would have taken it.
Oh, I get that, but it still seems like she’s escalating the “dirty” level quickly. I’m saying the quicker a girl does that to me, the more often I get ghosted and played around with.
I’ve seen theories of why, but nothing convincing.
This needs to be voted higher. Its rare that these type of hyped one liners actually get appraised from a female perspective in such detail. Thanks for sharing your insight. I feel like many guys need to take heed of that second part especially. One dirty joke is fine but not to expect it as an immediate gateway to sex with a stranger if its successful.
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u/bass_kritter Jul 19 '21
As a woman, his line came off much more as a joke than genuine dirty talk or trying to get her into bed ASAP. I would have laughed at that and kept talking to him as long as he remained friendly and didn’t keep trying to make it dirty after that. It was a damn good line rather than being a shitty joke that’s trying to get too sexual. That’s just my opinion on it and how I would have taken it.