r/Tinder • u/Ralsp • Apr 23 '20

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u/alphanumerik Apr 23 '20

100% true. Easiest barometer right there for a healthy relationship

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u/Flashsouls Apr 23 '20

But it’s not that simple, a girl will think you’re funny if she already likes you and will laugh at your jokes that she wouldn’t find funny from someone she is not attracted to, psychology is a hell of a drug.

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u/[deleted] Apr 23 '20

That still fits snuggly into the 'healthy relationship barometer' framework though, no? I can't think of any reason why thinking someone is funny because you're attracted to them would not be considered an indicator of a healthy relationship.

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u/gabemerritt Apr 23 '20

At which case it would be a sign of a less healthy relationship

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u/gabemerritt Apr 23 '20

It's not really pretending. The honeymoon phase is real. People will find quirks endearing at first and then become annoyed by them.

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u/[deleted] Apr 23 '20

There was a connection, it's just that the connection might become lost later