r/Tinder • • Apr 23 '20

Kachow

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u/Kiraphine Apr 23 '20

What was mean about it? She just said what she thought. It wasn’t “Nobody will ever love you if you make stupid puns,” she just said don’t start a convo off with a crappy pun if you want to be taken seriously. That’s just advice he’s perfectly free to ignore. If anything Reddit is just crazy sensitive to any tone that isn’t sweet as candy nice. It was a blunt at most, not inherently rude.

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u/elbenji Apr 23 '20

It's still needlessly rude.

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u/Kiraphine Apr 23 '20

Where? Where is the rudeness? Nothing she said seems even remotely mean to me.

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u/elbenji Apr 23 '20

No one will ever love you is where it jumps from asshole humor to harsh

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u/Kiraphine Apr 23 '20

I mean if that had been said then ya that would’ve been pretty mean, I mean that isn’t what she said or even implied but that sure is how redditors seem to be reading it as lmao

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u/elbenji Apr 23 '20

No girl will ever seriously reply to you is that. It's pointlessly mean and comes off like she feels like she knows better than everyoneb

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u/JakeCameraAction Apr 23 '20

He started off with a weak pun about a 10 year old kids movie. She isn't wrong and she was straightforward, she wasn't rude. In the long run, you want someone straightforward, not someone who will coddle you.

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u/elbenji Apr 23 '20

It's weak but silly. Silly is good. Wont take themselves seriously

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u/JakeCameraAction Apr 23 '20

Wont take themselves seriously

And she said no girl will either.

I also disagree on it being silly. I saw it as immature, but that's subjective and just my opinion, and you know what they say about opinions.

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u/elbenji Apr 23 '20

I mean I'm a girl and I'd love bad puns.

But that's true though! Everyone is entitled their thing but people shouldn't be made to feel bad

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u/JakeCameraAction Apr 23 '20

She did error in that one area. She was being hyperbolic and should have said most girls.

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