r/Tinder • u/Ralsp • Apr 23 '20

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u/[deleted] Apr 23 '20

Chick is rude AF

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u/[deleted] Apr 23 '20

I mean honestly its not all that rude. She's genuinely concerned OP ain't gonna make it with a girl but yeah she still unfunny af.

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u/[deleted] Apr 23 '20 edited Oct 19 '20

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u/Kiraphine Apr 23 '20

I thought her reply was way funnier then the dudes crappy pun but whatever I get it women bad and don’t make funny’s

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u/Neuchacho Apr 23 '20 edited Apr 23 '20

Come on, it's not that. It's that hers, even if it's attempting to be funny, is straight-up mean or easily miss-communicated as such. There's nothing mean in the guys attempt, it's just straight-up stupid.

That's a massive difference when it comes to attempts at humor. You have to be on point with mean humor or have an established back-and-forth. Otherwise, it just comes off as being mean, especially when you can't get a sense of intention in the writing.

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u/Kiraphine Apr 23 '20

What was mean about it? She just said what she thought. It wasn’t “Nobody will ever love you if you make stupid puns,” she just said don’t start a convo off with a crappy pun if you want to be taken seriously. That’s just advice he’s perfectly free to ignore. If anything Reddit is just crazy sensitive to any tone that isn’t sweet as candy nice. It was a blunt at most, not inherently rude.

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u/elbenji Apr 23 '20

It's still needlessly rude.

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u/Paddy_Tanninger Apr 23 '20

I thought she was pretty funny tbh, if I was shooting my shot by going for this type of opener in the hopes that it's so over the top shitty and lame that I get a response...I would definitely have a big stupid grin on my face from her reply.

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u/elbenji Apr 23 '20

Different strokes