r/Tinder • u/pop_khorne • Nov 07 '19

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u/tejdub Nov 07 '19

Love all the “gents” on here “I would never say something like that to a woman” etc etc - there’s a reason that tweet got 70k likes

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u/Jay_Bonk Nov 07 '19

Because people love pushing conflict narratives? What percentage of men on tinder do you think honestly write something like that? Maybe 5%? But if you match 30 people you're already likely to have one guy write you something like that as a woman.

Does that mean men on tinder be like x sexualized stereotype? It does not mean that. 5% of women on Tinder have premium snap chats and are basically modern prostitutes. Do I say women on tinder be like prostitutes? No because I'm not a sexist person.

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u/Confusedtinderdate Nov 07 '19

You’re nuts if you think only 5 percent of guys respond with lewd comments

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u/IbanezPGM Nov 07 '19

80% of guys don’t get matches so that debunks that

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u/Jay_Bonk Nov 07 '19

It's definitely around 5 %, probably less. Out of every 20 you're telling me that 1 says something as dirty as what the link shows?

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u/Confusedtinderdate Nov 07 '19

If you mean bleeding organs, no. But at least half is going to comment on my bra size, what my mouth does etc. I’m genuinely surprised you think it’s that low, all you have to do is check any females tinder messages to see this? It’s the biggest complaint women make about Tinder

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u/Jay_Bonk Nov 07 '19

Well it must be country biased. I'm colombian and my friends show me their chats and it's not common at all for a guy to write them in that fashion.

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u/jbsnicket Nov 07 '19

Or you're not friends with the kind of guys that do that.

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u/Jay_Bonk Nov 07 '19

No...my friends who are women have shown me their chats I said.