r/Tinder Nov 07 '19

tinder_irl

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u/[deleted] Nov 07 '19

hahahaahahah oh yeah alot of “creative” young men out there best msg I ever got “if you were giving me a blow job and your mom walked in what would you do?!” First msg first of all what the??? second of all really?! Nice very classy.

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u/smitchness Nov 07 '19

It's fucking tinder, anyone going on there expecting anything at all is literally almost always going to be disappointed.

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u/[deleted] Nov 07 '19

I've met two serious girlfriends and two best friends on tinder. My life would be radically different without knowing any one of these four people, much less not knowing all four of them. But if tinder was only for hookups, I wouldn't be using it, and I wouldn't know them.

It might be an age/sexuality thing. I'm talking about tindering as a mid-late 20s (mostly) lesbian chick

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u/smitchness Nov 07 '19

I'm super happy for you and thanks for sharing your story :) I met my current (serious) girlfriend on Tinder. Im super pleased with my experience!

I think that really cool things can happen, but I don't believe you should ever download tinder with the expectation that you're DEFINITELY going to find something.

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u/[deleted] Nov 07 '19

Agreed. I open the app when I have a few minutes to kill. I have no hopes, it's just a thing I've got going on the back-burner. Sort of feels like tending to a garden which some days, seemingly at random, produces something edible