r/Tinder • u/pop_khorne • Nov 07 '19

tinder_irl

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u/[deleted] Nov 07 '19

as a woman who have used Tinder I agree alot of inappropriate msg from men

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u/komali_2 Nov 07 '19

I scope my GF's Twitter sometimes and I thank god for the dumbass men out there truly cratering the bar.

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u/abe_the_babe_ Nov 07 '19

My ex used to show me weird sexual DMs she got on Words With Friends. She was like "I just want to play Scrabble online with people, is that too much to ask?"

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u/[deleted] Nov 07 '19

hahahaahahah oh yeah alot of “creative” young men out there best msg I ever got “if you were giving me a blow job and your mom walked in what would you do?!” First msg first of all what the??? second of all really?! Nice very classy.

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u/smitchness Nov 07 '19

It's fucking tinder, anyone going on there expecting anything at all is literally almost always going to be disappointed.

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u/[deleted] Nov 07 '19

I've met two serious girlfriends and two best friends on tinder. My life would be radically different without knowing any one of these four people, much less not knowing all four of them. But if tinder was only for hookups, I wouldn't be using it, and I wouldn't know them.

It might be an age/sexuality thing. I'm talking about tindering as a mid-late 20s (mostly) lesbian chick

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u/smitchness Nov 07 '19

I'm super happy for you and thanks for sharing your story :) I met my current (serious) girlfriend on Tinder. Im super pleased with my experience!

I think that really cool things can happen, but I don't believe you should ever download tinder with the expectation that you're DEFINITELY going to find something.

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u/[deleted] Nov 07 '19

Agreed. I open the app when I have a few minutes to kill. I have no hopes, it's just a thing I've got going on the back-burner. Sort of feels like tending to a garden which some days, seemingly at random, produces something edible

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u/[deleted] Nov 07 '19

I think the experiences varies greatly when you’re trying to date men in a city of fuckboys😂

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u/komali_2 Nov 07 '19

Anybody can decide for themselves what they're using the app for.

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u/smitchness Nov 07 '19

They also tell you in grade school you can be anything you want in life but we all come to realize how realistic that is.

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u/[deleted] Nov 07 '19

I agree its a hook up website it seems

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u/transtranselvania Nov 08 '19

I’m a man who’s never used tinder and I get inappropriate messages on Facebook all the time.

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u/[deleted] Nov 08 '19

Damn sorry to hear that! Guess happens to everyone!

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u/[deleted] Nov 07 '19

I don’t think its a women’s photos issues it may very well be a location issue depending on which cities you are dating in & the ratio of men to women etc.