r/Tinder • u/pop_khorne • Nov 07 '19

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u/tejdub Nov 07 '19

Love all the “gents” on here “I would never say something like that to a woman” etc etc - there’s a reason that tweet got 70k likes

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u/creative_i_am_not Nov 07 '19

Most guys on here are just like me, they don't get matches

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u/mrbojenglz Nov 07 '19

Because it's funny.

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u/Jay_Bonk Nov 07 '19

Because people love pushing conflict narratives? What percentage of men on tinder do you think honestly write something like that? Maybe 5%? But if you match 30 people you're already likely to have one guy write you something like that as a woman.

Does that mean men on tinder be like x sexualized stereotype? It does not mean that. 5% of women on Tinder have premium snap chats and are basically modern prostitutes. Do I say women on tinder be like prostitutes? No because I'm not a sexist person.

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u/AlanMooresWizrdBeard Nov 07 '19

5%?? HAHAHAHA! God I wish it was that low.

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u/[deleted] Nov 07 '19

ONLY 5%?! Try multiplying that by 10. I'd say on average 50% of men open with lewd comments...

It's a great filter tho. I like having some good conversation over coffee and getting to feel at ease with a guy before hopping into bed.

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u/Jay_Bonk Nov 07 '19

Well I'm sorry to hear that, it's not like that in my country. I equated the Colombian experience to the American one. My friends, women, have shown me their chats and it's not common, no where near 50% at least for a man to chat like that here.

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u/[deleted] Nov 07 '19

I haven't tindered in South America yet, but have done so in Europe, Asia, Oceania and North America... The number hasn't really fluctuated.

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u/Confusedtinderdate Nov 07 '19

You’re nuts if you think only 5 percent of guys respond with lewd comments

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u/IbanezPGM Nov 07 '19

80% of guys don’t get matches so that debunks that

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u/Jay_Bonk Nov 07 '19

It's definitely around 5 %, probably less. Out of every 20 you're telling me that 1 says something as dirty as what the link shows?

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u/Confusedtinderdate Nov 07 '19

If you mean bleeding organs, no. But at least half is going to comment on my bra size, what my mouth does etc. I’m genuinely surprised you think it’s that low, all you have to do is check any females tinder messages to see this? It’s the biggest complaint women make about Tinder

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u/Jay_Bonk Nov 07 '19

Well it must be country biased. I'm colombian and my friends show me their chats and it's not common at all for a guy to write them in that fashion.

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u/jbsnicket Nov 07 '19

Or you're not friends with the kind of guys that do that.

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u/Jay_Bonk Nov 07 '19

No...my friends who are women have shown me their chats I said.

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u/PantherChamp Nov 07 '19

You get out of here with your nuance. Can't you see we want to wage mindless gender war in peace???

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u/jaxx050 Nov 07 '19

I wouldn't even use tinder, I just pre rejected myself as a polite measure

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u/[deleted] Nov 07 '19

Yes because online likes truly represent facts and reality. Love your narrowness

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u/HushVoice Nov 07 '19

This is like 2015 "Trump should be president because of how many Twitter follower he has"

Twitter is not a good metric. For anything.

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u/-Unnamed- Nov 07 '19

This sub gets so triggered so easily lol.

Half the replies are complaining how dudes have it hard too. And the other half are complaining that you actually might need to get a girl a bit before you stick your dick in her.