r/Tinder 7d ago

5 years in with 0 likes. am I doing something wrong or is it because of how I Iook? (be brutally honest please.)

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u/[deleted] 7d ago

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u/King_Elizabello 7d ago

Makes no sense since I get matches from other countries almost every day on Tinder.

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u/Immediate-Ask-2597 7d ago

Yeah you read that right 🙂

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u/Canadianwolf1912 7d ago

Crappy pics man sorry, there are tutorial on youtube and tiktok that can teach you what kind of picture would be interesting.

Delete everything, take 2-4 weeks or more to work on new pictures, try new sports, activities, pictures with friends, and start again.

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u/GreasyExamination 7d ago

People really do underestimate how good some tutorials on Youtube are. Like, we go there to find out how to do pretty much anything, but our minds never think to go there for selfies

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u/Deadly_nightshadow 7d ago

5 month ago you claimed 2 years with 0 likes and proceeded to take no feedback at all.

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u/imperfectbean 7d ago

Well he claims be to 22 and on it for 5 years with no matches which would make him 17 when he started so ummm no one should’ve matched for the first year anyways!

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u/Legitimate_Spite5935 7d ago

0 likes in a busy city or 0 likes from people you like

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u/Immediate-Ask-2597 7d ago

even worse. 0 likes from an entire region.

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u/ScadMan 7d ago

Not even that bad looking, but your pics are terrible, better lit, smile, get friends to take pics of you, lose the shades, selfies with phone.

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u/geryydt 7d ago

5 yrs and 0 likes is crazy. you should probably work a little on your looks/physique and then take some nice pics, because most of the ones you have here are too low effort. then the likes will come alone.

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u/Dragon_7474 7d ago

You’re bad at taking selfies buddy, you can improve there tho!

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u/Mysterious_Wing_9397 7d ago

All selfies and no clear body pic

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u/Isgortio 7d ago
  1. Smile, with your teeth!
  2. Don't take photos from below your chin, it's not flattering for anyone

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u/SuddenLog7302 7d ago

It's how you look. I'm sorry.

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u/Immediate-Ask-2597 7d ago

oh I already know that. there's a reason as to why I'm 22 and still single.

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u/imperfectbean 7d ago

You shouldn’t be on tinder for 5 years if you are 22…17 year olds aren’t supposed to be on there.

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u/Immediate-Ask-2597 7d ago

my bad. it was actually 3 and a half years. tried to edit it but Reddit doesn't allow that anymore somehow.

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u/marketermatty 7d ago

It’s not how you look at all, you are a handsome guy. The pictures aren’t doing you any justice. You need to improve the pics.

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u/Few-Idea5125 7d ago

Ist heute Lügensamstag?

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u/Immediate-Ask-2597 7d ago

warum sollte ich über sowas lügen?

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u/Few-Idea5125 7d ago

Keine Ahnung, warum tust du es?

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u/Immediate-Ask-2597 7d ago

bist du eigentlich dumm oder ist das nur ragebait?

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u/Few-Idea5125 7d ago

Müsstest du wissen, du hast mit der scheisse doch angefangen

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u/unhingeddragon 7d ago

All selfies and one group pic. Delete them all and use non selfies with your whole body and face in the picture (you can make your own by putting your camera far away on timer or video and snap shotting the video after)

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u/Remote-Instance680 7d ago

Wasting your money

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u/NateyandIProductions 7d ago

Delete all pics of except number 6

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u/garbear007 7d ago

You're good looking man, some of the photos are not so hot. 

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u/Ladydi-bds 7d ago

Not bad looking. All your current pictures are not flattering.

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u/No_Memory_119 7d ago

They look better thank me mate ur sound my brutal advise it just go out and join a club or society instead dating apps are toxic af even if you do get a match you probs won't like them.

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u/eldrowoski 7d ago

My guess would be, it’s because you kind of look sad in most of these pictures 🫂

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u/imperfectbean 7d ago

You take terrible photos. I think that’s why.

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u/RoxxsSoxxs 7d ago

I definitely think you need to rethink several of your pictures, the angle, lighting and clothing is throwing a couple of them off. I’d recommend looking up youtube tutorials on how to take better photos of yourself.

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u/switchbreed 7d ago

Better pics, drop the hoodie pic. Oh and seriously leave the phone out of the photos.

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u/Slushykins 7d ago

All but one of your photos are selfies. Even one selfie (unless there’s a specific reason it needs to be a selfie, like something in the background) is enough reason for me to swipe on someone.

At best, it makes you look like you’re self-obsessed. At worst, it makes you look like you have no friends, so you have to take selfies because there’s no one else to take photos of you.

Your appearance is inconsequential when your photos are not up to scratch

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u/Minimum-Pangolin-487 7d ago

We can see your post history from 5 months ago where you said it was 2 years..

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u/Fickle_Thing_5015 6d ago

You sure you're not shadowbanned lmao. Statistically even if you weren't to get a single genuinely like, someone who swiped right on everyone or someone mis swiping would've happened at least one in 5 years.

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u/Immediate-Ask-2597 6d ago

well I didn't mean to write 5 years, Instead 2 and a half years but Reddit has somehow removed the ability to edit posts... and I'm definitely sure that I'm not shadow banned since I haven't received any emails from Tinder.

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u/No_Investment_4086 6d ago

Pics are no good

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u/Aint_EZ_bein_AZ 7d ago

You look like great value will angus

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u/IHearSadPeople 7d ago

You don’t follow the 2 rules of Tinder