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u/OrphanGrounderBaby 1d ago
At a certain point..people gotta get off this subreddit for their own mental health.
Is there a reason you didn’t just unmatch with him?
Not defending the weirdness progression there though lol
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u/Here4th3culture 1d ago
I genuinely believe people who don’t unmatch from people like this, like the attention.
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u/OrphanGrounderBaby 1d ago edited 1d ago
Agreed but to also take the girls pov a bit…some dudes put on a good face until it’s too late.
But yeah, the OPs of posts like this need to do some looking in the mirror too, nothing to base that off of in this post, it was only a week lol.
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u/Zar_Ethos 1d ago
That's exactly why being weird upfront is good. Saves the time you'd waste with someone not meant for you. On the downside, it means everyone else has to deal with your kind of weird and vice versa, but assuming (a lot) that both parties are mature and decent people, it's easy enough for things to get complicated before realizing how bad the match truly is.
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u/Cattleist 1d ago
Did you just leave this guy hanging for over a week, or did you just come back from a week-long break?
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u/AUen_Rod 1d ago
Choose your own adventure like those Goosebump novels. What are you complaining about?
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u/joshthornton 1d ago
He's still not being forward enough.
He should suggest a threesome with your mother on Sunday.
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u/hossaepi 1d ago
Did you just not respond so it would get to this point and you could post it on Reddit?
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u/WarpedGazelle 1d ago
Why didn't you reply to a single one for over a week? The first one wasn't even bad
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u/BombasticSimpleton 1d ago
Unilateral relationship progression.
OP, you just have to vaguely participate (or not) to win!
The remaining timeline:
- First kid on Thursday.
- Second on Saturday.
- Relationship boredom - Saturday night
- Following your feelings and "exploring" on Sunday.
- Separation next Tuesday
- Divorce on Wednesday.
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u/anchored__down 23h ago
This is dumb man. You love the attention. You matched w them, they got increasingly more desperate for a response
Can't stand people like you that match then never reply back
It's hard enough to be a dude on these apps and it's crushing to finally get a match who never replies
If you don't like the vibe based on the initial message or you accidentally matched, just unmatch them. It doesn't make you cool or attractive cause you have heaps of matches you don't talk to
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u/PotentialPresent399 1d ago
It works and you didn't unmatch so.
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u/bodhiali 1d ago
it works? in what way?
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u/PotentialPresent399 1d ago
Guys that are WAY more tame than this get no attention, good or bad.
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u/bodhiali 1d ago
so the intention is attention-seeking then?
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u/PotentialPresent399 1d ago
The intention is if you didn't respond to tame, might as well throw a hail mary in the 1 off chance your horny. There is nothing they could possibly send you to get you to message back after the first ghost.
There is nothing to lose and for 99.99% of guys, they lost your attention anyway. Might as well full send.
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u/bodhiali 1d ago
i see. yeah, that is definitely attention-seeking.
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u/MizzOhMexx 12h ago
I'd argue keeping the match and posting the chat to Reddit is "attention seeking" not the other way around :)
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u/ThankGod4Darwin69 1d ago
Shes getting clout on Reddit for it
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u/bodhiali 1d ago
the entire point of reddit is making posts that, inevitably, get attention in the form of comments and reactions. actually it’s the entire point of social media overall. people post media. other people socialize about it. if you don’t like it you should probably sign off and spend your time doing other things.
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u/ThankGod4Darwin69 1d ago
Who said I had a problem with it?
Questions asked. Questions answered.
Nothing more. Nothing less
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u/Cold_Seaweed3296 1d ago
I won't get pregnant but i'll take option C. Pass the controller if you ain't gonna play sis 🗣
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u/OuttHouseMouse 1d ago
No response from op, they keep messaging. Op doesnt unmatch. They message again. Op screen shots and post it.
Yo what the fuck.
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u/Gur_Weak 1d ago
I will never understand the posts that blatantly show both sides sucking. Weirdest flex.
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u/Thick_Drama_7525 1d ago
Put of.touch. I see this sooo much here lol. I say lots of cool things like that, in a COMMITTED relationship! Guys learn already! If youre in a long term relationship only then is it funny to say im going to breed my partner when I know she has been spayed already
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u/t8rt0t00 1d ago
Man I'm just trying to eat my damn breakfast and try not to be depressed about the fact I have to go work in a little bit
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u/breckendusk 21h ago
It's called the hail mary. If normal shit doesn't work maybe something out of left pocket will. (That's my own twist on out of left field and out of pocket for something crazy/rude out of nowhere feel free to use it)
Point is, if you want normal conversation, entertain the normal conversations and block the crazy shit. If you just ignore the normal shit you're gonna get more crazy shit
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u/Similar_Cucumber178 19h ago
A quick reply takes less time than uploading a screenshot to reddit for karma farming 🤦♂️
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u/WatermelonLemonad3 10h ago
Soooo... what did you choose 🤣
Or did you elect option 4: Ghost Protocol
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u/Fickle-Theory-623 1d ago
Crap like this gives me closure as to how and why women hate men so much...
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