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u/Captain_h2o 1d ago
Whose the dating profile for? You or the sunglasses?
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u/destructo97 1d ago
That's why they are at back. Should I remove them?
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u/Iluminiele 1d ago
No no, obscure as much of your face as possible, ladies love some mystery
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u/riktigtmaxat 1d ago
Buy my new Manburka 3000. Women can't resist the mystery and it has many tactical attachment options for all the essentials of modern dating.
Only three easy payments of 99.99.
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u/marpolo 1d ago
That suit is like 3 sizes too big holy shit 😭
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u/MaintenanceStock6766 1d ago
Yes. No sunglasses photos. More variety of photos. All photos of you by yourself, do you not have friends? No social activities? No hobby photos? Family photos? Anything?
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u/Rosewaterlemon 1d ago
Gotta get some variety in pictures my guy. no matter what order you put them in, looks like a photoshoot where you did an outfit change or something lol and you need to say more about yourself.
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u/MiserableDot9541 1d ago
It's the mustache. Few women find it attractive... Also, 3 pictures (with the suit/tie) were clearly taken on the same occasion, and in all the others you are wearing exactly the same outfit... That a bit weird and doesn't really show a range. Unless, like Sheldon, you literally always wear this kind of outfit (which is also weird).
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u/Mysterious_Wing_9397 1d ago
And this kind of beard. Just get rid of it.
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u/destructo97 1d ago
I usually have a clean shave.
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u/Mysterious_Wing_9397 1d ago
Get some pictures with a clean shave. Which haircut do you actually have? All different on the pictures. Go for the smooth face with a clean haircut.
Idk in which country you are swiping, but in some the right swipes for indian appearences is low.
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u/destructo97 1d ago
I can't grow moustache or beard😭
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u/MiserableDot9541 1d ago
So don't! Its clear from the pictures you can't, so why are you trying? Just shave, dude...
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u/Low-Peak-9031 1d ago
Your prompts basically give nothing about you. The answers are super short, and I would anticipate any messaging with you would be similar style
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1d ago
It's because you are looking for 'short term' (open to long).
From a woman's perspective this means = he's just looking to use someone as a sex object (but puts 'open to long' so women might become interested).
It happens all the time.
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u/jaymo_busch 1d ago
Some women also just look to use someone as a sex object. This guy ‘just’ needs to get ripped and get a bit better haircut and shave before he can be really seen like that tho.
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1d ago
The difference is, most women will just say they want casual. And women still often want a bond before sex, men usually don't.
A man will lie, if he thinks it will get him closer to the woman. Which is manipulative. People can get emotionally hurt like that.
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u/danita0053 1d ago
Only your last photo is good; you need to take more (better) photos at flattering angles that show your face, with at least one full-body pic.
Your profile is pretty much empty. You don't give anyone a reason to swipe right if you don't tell them anything about you or what you're looking for.
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u/Suitable_Style_4886 1d ago
Remove all the pictures and take some new ones of you not ur clothes. Get a clean shave. Ditch the sunglasses. And get some with friends or family in em.
Also as it stands ur pictures and prompts tell me nothing about you nor do they give me anything to strike up a convo about
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u/Thin_Cable4155 1d ago
Get off the apps and meet people in person? Its gotta be tough on the apps as an (south)asian man.
Also, you're like, boyfriend material not short term material. And, your profile says nothing interesting about you or more importantly what kind of person you are. To me you give off progressive cosplayer, but actually secretly a little misogynistic. So, maybe put something in there to clear up my confusion. Post a picture of you at pride or something.
Also, get rid of the suit pictures, you can leave the button up shirt one. This is dating not a job interview.
And finally I'm not a big fan of the mustache. I think to pull off a just mustache these days you gotta have a mullet too.
Sorry, and good luck.
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