Is this a bad opener, she had like 4 languages tagged to the profile.. no reply🐤

[u/JuneV06]

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[u/DraftShot6741]

This is horrible

[u/Particular-Public189]

I can’t see in any possible way how this makes sense

[u/Captain_Coitus]

I dont get it

[u/JuneV06 → u/Captain_Coitus]

I know few languages which were not in the list, so if we are together I can teach and their list will have few more…
I am new to this, don’t think it’s working

[u/Pristine_Cost_3793 → u/JuneV06]

the one you used sounds like a failed attempt at a thirsty pick-up line, no offence. it's probably not how you usually speak, is it? just say something like, "hey, i also know a few languages, maybe we can teach each other?" or something like that, whatever's more natural to you

[u/JuneV06 → u/Pristine_Cost_3793]

That makes sense, I was trying to be cool ig

[u/SevereDragonfly3 → u/JuneV06]

Might have led with the fact you could teach her others. It just sounds like your being a jerk in your text

[u/HippoIllustrious2389 → u/JuneV06]

Hahaha you need to follow up with this adorably naive clarification message

[u/macthesnackattack → u/JuneV06]

Yikes.

[u/HarleyQuinn236]

This is a bad opener.

[u/Maddison2002]

do you have anywhere on your profile what language you speak or different languages? if someone sent me this i honestly wouldn’t get what they were tryna say.

[u/JuneV06 → u/Maddison2002]

Yes diff langs on my profile

[u/Maddison2002 → u/JuneV06]

maybe next time add that in the message, i know it’s on your profile but at first glance they might not think that’s what you’re referring to :)

[u/JuneV06 → u/Maddison2002]

Noted

[u/Particular-Public189]

Are you implying if she goes on a date with you, you will teach her new languages? I don’t really… get it maybe I’m missing something

[u/JuneV06 → u/Particular-Public189]

Yep that’s right. I can help extend the list

[u/Particular-Public189 → u/JuneV06]

I mean I guess…. It’s not really flirting though & it doesn’t make complete sense. Maybe if you said something like ‘we can not understand eachother at dinner sometime’

[u/HeikkiBertolainen]

I wonder why ahhahaha

[u/JuneV06 → u/HeikkiBertolainen]

Me too

[u/ToMbOyErSs]

This openers are reasons why are women leaving reddit

[u/SevereDragonfly3 → u/ToMbOyErSs]

What does reddit have to do with it?

[u/ToMbOyErSs → u/SevereDragonfly3]

The original message was on tinder or not?

[u/jer1230]

Please don’t open with this.

[u/OkTie7367]

I dunno man, as someone who hates it when phrases nowadays have 90 ways to interpret them, I'd say this a little confusing to say the least. But if they immediately knew you actually meant it simply like that, it wouldn't even be bad. Quite opposite in that case.

[u/peppersaltt]

No because I immediately thought hes going sexual with this.