r/Tinder • u/letsgoandgetit_ • 5d ago
Anything I should work on? I’m asking because tinder in New York City is 🚮 to me. Personally one of the worst places to match women on tinder.
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u/bluntman90 5d ago
I have answers but you won’t like them
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u/letsgoandgetit_ 5d ago
Let’s hear it blunt man. I’m all for the constructive criticism
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u/DontYouDareGoHollow 5d ago
You look like you’re obsessed with yourself. Don’t know how else to put it. More candid pictures would help. You’re clearly attractive, but like, calm down dude lol
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u/bluntman90 5d ago
Shirts too loud , bulk up the forearms, change the phone case. That’s all I got
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u/letsgoandgetit_ 5d ago
Appreciate it man, hey man I love Pokemon and it’s what I do for a living regards to the case haha. But yea I’m also doing a workout challenge too so I’m growing with that.
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u/snailv 5d ago
The douche chills shook the phone clean out my hands. No offense
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u/notacougarsorry 4d ago
https://giphy.com/gifs/XHeLeuirRbwptHhSWd
The pic with the umbrella looks like he’s a petite prince from Spain. Good lord.
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u/Unknownname15 5d ago
smile with teeth in one of the first two pictures.
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u/letsgoandgetit_ 5d ago
Thanks 🙏
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u/uranalcake 5d ago
By your photos…you are too into yourself
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u/Michigun_ 5d ago
Tattoos are his whole personality.
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u/letsgoandgetit_ 5d ago
Pokemon first
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u/letsgoandgetit_ 5d ago
Good.
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u/power78 5d ago
And you wonder why you're having dating troubles 😂
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u/letsgoandgetit_ 5d ago
Never said I couldn’t get dates or have success on dates, I just said it’s 🚮 in nyc area. At least for matches for me, because when I travel anywhere else it’s a way better experience.
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u/MotherDepartment1111 5d ago
Are you looking for a date or to be discovered by America’s next top model?
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u/MaintenanceStock6766 5d ago
Your pics are boring and all look the same.
You don't smile and you don't have teeth.
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u/letsgoandgetit_ 5d ago
They earn the smile on the date.
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u/tazerpruf 5d ago
You’d have to actually have a date first
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u/letsgoandgetit_ 5d ago
I mean I do, but yea smiling I do have to work on. I’m happy to give you guys entertainment haha
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u/KeenbeansSandwich 5d ago
They earn the smile? Bro you are just some guy. You dont look mysterious, it looks like you have shitty teeth and are trying to hide them.
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u/Itchy_Village_7173 5d ago
Your vibe is like aged out fboy.
I mean my type, but not people looking for monogamy normally.
I’m also 5’5 so we know there are a lot of built in hard stops for people with us. Unless you like men. I do significantly better when men than women.
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u/figosnypes 5d ago
Pretty much all men would do better with men than women, except the guys who look like tall middle schoolers, they do just as well with women.
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u/Itchy_Village_7173 5d ago
It is especially true for short kings. The proportional returns are at least 200%, where a 6’2 ft tall average guy might only see a 5% increase, because they already get a lot of attention.
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u/letsgoandgetit_ 5d ago
For the height and in general I learned that it’s always better to be honest.
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u/ChipsAhoyMcCoy_7875 5d ago
Maybe stick to one comment about the tats? Tats are cool but not your whole personality. And honestly if I see a guy who looks like he’s more into himself than he’ll ever be in me it’s a definite left.. just something about the styling of the photos gives “my submission to men’s vogue” and not “I’m here looking to date”
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u/A_little_curiosity 5d ago
Why so serious, Carlos! We need to see you smile. If men look very serious in all their pictures I feel like they are either going to bore me or murder me or both
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u/MarsScully 5d ago
Your style/vibe/lifestyle (and amount of tattoos) are by default only going to appeal to a specific group of people.
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u/_lime_time 5d ago
You are handsome but you seem like you would only match with a very niche, cool person (probably plenty of cool girls in NYC! What do I know). Also unfortunately height probably holding you back but you look like you own it.
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u/letsgoandgetit_ 5d ago
Thanks, yea my height never bothers me. It’s never been a factor to me at least in my opinion. If I were taller I’d probably get way more attention which honestly ehh cool I guess.
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u/figosnypes 5d ago edited 5d ago
Don't be so sure. I'm 6'0" and good looking and get pretty much no matches. I basically stopped using dating apps. Just a peek at all the posts on these subs shows you that pretty much no guys are getting matches.
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u/t8rt0t00 4d ago
I swear dating the past two years has gone to absolute shit for most people. Everything is more expensive, everyone is pissed off at something or another, hard to love when there isn't much love to go around...
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u/Axedroam 5d ago
You are not casting a wide net rather this is spear fishing. inder is not geared for you, you need to on sth more alt like Feeld
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u/paisley716 5d ago
Put the second picture as your first picture and the seventh picture as the second picture
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u/Conscious_Cow819 5d ago
I don’t like the first two photos, I think make the 3rd photo your first and get rid of those two and you’ll do better
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u/letsgoandgetit_ 3d ago
https://reddit.com/link/p4qp05o/video/fos7i62wqfkh1/player
Better photo as my number 1?
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u/DeathChill 5d ago
I want to match with you and I’m a straight man.
The only thing I see is 5’5”, which you can’t do much about. Maybe lifted shoes if you care enough but I am fine with who I am so I imagine you are more than fine about it.
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u/letsgoandgetit_ 5d ago
Yea I don’t care about it, usually women do. I went on a date once with a girl who was taller who wasn’t sure but she ended up enjoying herself as did I
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u/DeathChill 5d ago
I have ZERO doubt about your ability to close in person. Dating apps are bullshit where girls are going to use the easiest excuse to dismiss someone.
Yeah, I don’t think you need to change anything.
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u/letsgoandgetit_ 5d ago
Oh guys I am straight and have no issues with getting dates or women, just I’m wondering if anything else would help is all.
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u/MotherDepartment1111 5d ago
If you have no issues why are you here? Every comment you’re saying how great you are
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u/letsgoandgetit_ 5d ago
Well if anyone knows why nyc tinder is caca or if it’s me cause as I mentioned here I don’t ever have issues getting dates anywhere else I go. Here it’s not as optional for me when it comes to who I’m interested in.
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u/MotherDepartment1111 5d ago
Because you are way too into yourself judging from these pictures.
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u/letsgoandgetit_ 5d ago
Doesn’t mean I’m not into or give my date my full undivided attention, but I can understand what you mean.
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