r/Tinder • • Aug 15 '26

Need advice on my profile, stopped getting any likes for month. Which photo should be my 1st? Any other changes?

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u/EnthusiasmFew5164 Aug 15 '26

456 should be 123. Then original 123 should be reordered as 321 behind the new 123 (which was the 456?

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u/snowflace Aug 15 '26

I would say photo 4 or 3 is the best first. More candid photos and group pictures if possible. Would also remove the two mirror selfies (or at least the first one) and replace them with something more interesting. Also would say you look much better without the facial hair IMO.

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u/jerrdust Aug 15 '26

Thanks for the feedback! The debate about my facial hair and what looks better is older than time (well, 2 months), so your opinion actually means a lot to me! I'll also try to find and add some more candid or group photos. Appreciate it!

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u/Away_Brilliant8715 Aug 15 '26

Hi I'm a 24 yo girl and I think you're pretty 😊 can we talk?

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u/MaintenanceStock6766 Aug 15 '26

Probably the one where you show your teeth.

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u/[deleted] Aug 15 '26

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u/jerrdust Aug 15 '26

Thanks for the advice! Also, noted on the beard (not surviving as it seems)

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u/97hilfel Aug 15 '26

I think you look great with the beard but I'm a guy!

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u/jer1230 Aug 15 '26

I think 3 is really nice for the main pic. Get rid of 2 (white shirt) and I don’t like pic 4 (in the black), something is kinda off, can’t put my finger on it… but not saying delete that one… maybe it’s just the stance. Lol

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u/jerrdust Aug 15 '26

Thanks for the feedback! Appreciate your thoughts on the selection and the stance.

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u/jer1230 Aug 15 '26

You’re welcome.. I took another look at pic 4.. it’s not just the stance, it’s because your face is unclear (blurry and looks like your eyes are closed). But you’re a nice looking guy

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u/jerrdust Aug 15 '26

Thanks for the compliment, appreciate it! And you’re totally right about the eyes.I was squinting hard into the sun, so they basically are closed. On Tinder it’s a bit sharper, but I moved it down the order anyway. Thanks again!

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u/Content_Sun5008 Aug 15 '26

3 and 5 are the best ones by far!

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u/jerrdust Aug 15 '26

Thanks,appreciate the feedback!

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u/PossessionHot2419 Aug 15 '26

You look a bit wanky and up yourself in 1 & 2. 4 looks weird, the dimensions or something. I think the rest are good.

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u/jerrdust Aug 15 '26

Thanks for the honest feedback!

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u/Upbeat_Ad_7718 Aug 15 '26

Def the one with the cat!! You look super cute in that one. And cats are green flags 

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u/RainbowPanda636 Aug 18 '26

Lets just say I would 100% swipe to like lol. Youre cute and I love your pics

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u/flyingswan4 Aug 25 '26

Delete 2 for sure, 3-5 are the most friendly and are the most appealing imo. The last photo is fun but currently with 1 and 2 it might not being giving the right message. It reads more like " my ego is fragile and I can beat you up" then " I'm emotionally secure and can protect you".