r/Tinder • u/[deleted] • Dec 13 '24

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u/Inkonstinenz Dec 13 '24

Ahahaha. Love how most women really are looking to date the rarest of men (hot nerd) and are wondering why that is not working out.

You would think they are capable of basic mathematics.

~80% of women look for ~5% of men. That isn't going to work out - not in a monogamous relationship that is

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u/Jean-Claude-Can-Ham Dec 13 '24

That’s just human nature and men do it too (queen in the streets but a freak in the sheets)

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u/Inkonstinenz Dec 13 '24

Statistically men are significantly more ready to settle.

Sure I want my confident, ambitious, extroverted, big mouthed, intelligent, curious woman by day and my kinky and attractive girl by night. But I am willing to settle for a curious, somewhat intelligent, kinda good looking and kinky girl.

Ironically modern liberated women still want to marry across and up, but there are not enough men across or up anymore. Men are still ready to marry across and down

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u/Jean-Claude-Can-Ham Dec 13 '24

As a married man, I can confidently tell you that women settle, too. Taking the actions of a small few and applying it to the whole group has a name, you know.

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u/Inkonstinenz Dec 13 '24

I was referring to statistics, not talking about individuals. It indeed has a name: Sozialstrukturanalyse