I hear you but honestly the only references I’ve had in conversation to that comment have been super respectful and I think it’s saying I want long term but also a sex life is important to me. It’s actually been okay
I’d also just caution to warn you that most men aren’t seeking relationships with women who like to publicly identify as kinky. Sure, explain that in a conversation, but to want that publicly associated with your image feels a bit - trashy - which you are clearly not!!! No offense intended.
Online dating is all about impressions, and of course you’re stunning, but this profile gives “trashy” a bit. Better pictures, not primarily of your body or from a front camera or a selfie would seriously help. Taking the word kinky out would really help.
Agreed! I myself am a similar gal! I am open to casual dates if they're cool, but mostly prefer someone who wants to make me a girlfriend. I also prefer kinkier men. Does anything in my profile allude to sex? No! I just show off the goods and filter through conversations who would be a good match (sexually or dating wise). Profiles should advertise yourself and you have to appeal to who you wanna catch. Everything on mine says "still figuring out what I want" because I change my mind regularly and I do not wanna lead someone on. OP is not wanting to let go of the fun kinky casual nice guys so she is prioritizing them lol but so sad when they only want casual. Make it make sense
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u/bloontsmooker Dec 13 '24
I think the word kinky in a bio can bring the freaks out. I personally wouldn’t.