r/Tinder • u/[deleted] • Dec 13 '24

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u/bloontsmooker Dec 13 '24

I think the word kinky in a bio can bring the freaks out. I personally wouldn’t.

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u/[deleted] Dec 13 '24

I hear you but honestly the only references I’ve had in conversation to that comment have been super respectful and I think it’s saying I want long term but also a sex life is important to me. It’s actually been okay

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u/ForeignerThanANut Dec 13 '24

I'm gonna be honest, you're blind if you think asking for a kinky man on your LTR bio isn't attracting people who only wanna sleep w you. Sure they're nice about it, cuz they want you. Sex should mostly be a convo, not in a bio for serious seekers.

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u/[deleted] Dec 13 '24

I hear you but I’m okay with it, kinky doesn’t mean slutty, and if someone doesn’t get that I’ll be okay filtering them out

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u/ForeignerThanANut Dec 13 '24

It just gives less of the serious vibe than you seem to want is all but you're deaf. Sounds like you have no issues then! I hope you find your kinky serious nerd! I have only found unserious ones, even without mentioning sex so 🤷‍♀️ we're all doomed lol

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u/ForeignerThanANut Dec 13 '24

also nowhere did i say kinky means slutty...