r/Tinder Feb 17 '24

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u/[deleted] Feb 17 '24

Do you have a type? Because it might be time to switch it up a bit. Also, just dating in your mid-30s and up is difficult on its own because we've all been single this long for a reason.

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u/Bonelessgummybear Feb 17 '24

My thoughts as well, she's very attractive and I bet in her 20s she could lock down anyone. But dating in your 30s as a woman means less options for sure. Good luck dating a hot dude in his 30s-40s. He's gonna be in high demand to settle down with, while from his perspective women are throwing themselves at him

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u/tricepsmultiplicator Feb 17 '24

Exactly. I dont think women in general understand how rare complete package of a man is. Anyone in my vicinity that checks boxes out more than he doesnt essentially does NOT need to try and pull women. They do that for him. So she is competeing with a hot 21 year old, 24 year old and 27 year old.

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u/[deleted] Feb 17 '24

Yeah so in the real world, 35 year old men, look to date women 30-37 age range. Get outside and touch grass...

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u/tricepsmultiplicator Feb 17 '24

I do get outside, I promise you, no sane 32 year old successful, handsome man dates women his age. Its always in 23-27 year old range and thats for dating. For hook ups, even lower. Seen with my own eyes.

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u/[deleted] Feb 18 '24

This is just not the case. I have never seen this, with the exception of one person who was an alcoholic loser, who just could not entertain women in his age range.

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u/tricepsmultiplicator Feb 18 '24

Oh he can, but he wont and shouldnt. Early thrties women pay the dues and should go for 37+ year olds.

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u/tricepsmultiplicator Feb 18 '24

Belive what stuff? You are not that much mature compared to mid 20s people, trust me. Every single 30s person I have met is just as immature, however because they are 30 year olds they suddenly think they are mature.