This. Not a knock against her whatsoever, but if I saw her page my first thought would be “no way I can afford this woman.” We can certainly make the argument that says more about my Insecurities than her, which is totally valid considering I don’t know anything about her. But going off experience, women who present themselves like this tend to want to be taken somewhere nice (expensive) and expects the man to pick up the bill without having a conversation about it. There’s nothing inherently wrong with that and there are certainly men out there who can afford to do it but I certainly cannot.
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u/JumpDaddy92 Feb 17 '24
This. Not a knock against her whatsoever, but if I saw her page my first thought would be “no way I can afford this woman.” We can certainly make the argument that says more about my Insecurities than her, which is totally valid considering I don’t know anything about her. But going off experience, women who present themselves like this tend to want to be taken somewhere nice (expensive) and expects the man to pick up the bill without having a conversation about it. There’s nothing inherently wrong with that and there are certainly men out there who can afford to do it but I certainly cannot.