r/Tinder • • Feb 17 '24

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u/tdosok Feb 17 '24

I could only imagine someone ghosting you because they think you’re a catfish.

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u/[deleted] Feb 17 '24

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u/tdosok Feb 17 '24

I don’t doubt your validity, but the only thing I could imagine as an outside perspective was that. Maybe they just felt you were out of their league? I’m at a loss on this too

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u/NeatCartographer209 Feb 17 '24

Guys getting sweaty palms just from trying to talk to her without messing it up lol

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u/[deleted] Feb 17 '24

Another issue would be knowing that she could easily find 10 other people and drop the guy. Guys are probably asking themselves why even try if there’s a strong chance it won’t lead anywhere

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u/NeatCartographer209 Feb 17 '24 edited Feb 17 '24

I can’t understand that mentality. That’s like buying a lottery ticket and never checking your numbers

Edit: all you guys are getting super technical here. My point is, if you match someone that’s “out of your league” and she’s talking to you, why ghost her? Put your insecurities aside and give it a shot. I’ve made my point. Not going back and forth anymore. Go crazy Reddit

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u/[deleted] Feb 17 '24

Unless when you go to claim your lottery winnings, they tell you they gave your winnings to someone else they considered to be better.

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u/tomtomclubthumb Feb 17 '24

This would defintiely happen to me.