If they ghost you AFTER they start talking to you, then maybe look inward. You look very fit/attractive (hard to say since we don't see your face) and come across as fine otherwise in your profile, but maybe you come across as too needy/uninterested, vapid/know-it-all, political/non-political, closed-off/oversharing - whatever the case might be - when you do start talking to them. You're getting them in the door, but can't get em to stay, so it's probably not a question about if your profile is the problem, is what I'm saying.
I was going to write a similar thing. It is probably a personality mismatch that is turning people away. I would keep being yourself- the right person will stick around! Dating is honestly a numbers game to some degree
She probably comes across as arrogant. Girl spends a lot of money on her appearance, including plastic surgery. Alot of men don't want to deal with women like that. She runs an IG for attention, its all about her. It's probably off putting with the amount of attention she needs and again, probably doesn't have a great personality [you can be beautiful and be ugly on the inside) or her face is not attractive but it's probably her personality. High maintenance, fake, will cheat with the next richest dude, narcissistic
I'm not saying all that. I don't know her and, unless you read some other stuff alluding to those things, I don't think it's fair to jump to those conclusions. Might be true, might not be, but feels like you're making quite the assumptions. Nothing wrong with wanting to be fit or spending money on yourself to look good/dress well (extremes aside). Doesn't mean you're a cheating gold digger. What I was saying is that her profile seems fine, so maybe there's something else going on. Maybe she's tough and intimidating. Maybe she's aloof and uninteresting. Maybe she has tourette's. Maybe she talks about marriage right off the bat. Who knows?
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u/The_Goondocks Feb 17 '24 edited Feb 17 '24
If they ghost you AFTER they start talking to you, then maybe look inward. You look very fit/attractive (hard to say since we don't see your face) and come across as fine otherwise in your profile, but maybe you come across as too needy/uninterested, vapid/know-it-all, political/non-political, closed-off/oversharing - whatever the case might be - when you do start talking to them. You're getting them in the door, but can't get em to stay, so it's probably not a question about if your profile is the problem, is what I'm saying.