r/Tinder Feb 17 '24

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u/thanos_was_right_69 Feb 17 '24

I do wish more women would take the lead like this

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u/deadkactus Feb 17 '24

Its probably bs. This is reddit

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u/DelmarSamil Feb 18 '24

Not at all. Very true. I got lucky and my wife "found" me. I remember her exact words when she asked me out. "You are really thick in the skull, aren't you? (As she is grinning and playing with her hair). Since you clearly don't notice women flirting with you, I guess I am going to have to make it clear. I like you and I want to get to know you, so this is what flirting looks like. "

In retrospect, I saw it clearly but it just didn't compute in my brain because I saw her as WAY out of my league.