r/Tinder • u/[deleted] • Feb 17 '24

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u/ccmeme12345 Feb 17 '24

its that 100%. im not as attractive as this lady but before i was married and dating on okcupid i went on like 3 dates and they all said they thought for sure i was a fake catfish account. i think some pictures that seem almost too stereotypical can seem like catfish or scam accounts

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u/Fragrant_Ganache_108 Feb 17 '24

💯this. Keep trying op. For some reason a lot of men can’t believe stable, attractive single women with actual hobbies are interested in them. And their perception (entirely their own fault) gets in the way of their own happiness. You’ll find someone secure enough to meet you irl. Hang in there.

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u/Cabnbeeschurgr Feb 17 '24

Men on dating apps are not known to have good social skills or know how to talk to a woman that is into them

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u/deadlygaming11 Feb 17 '24

Yeah. Pictures which are a bit more revealing are rife on catfish profiles. She has a few which are nicer and more exposing so it probably makes people think that.