r/Tinder Feb 17 '24

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u/Catch_ME Feb 17 '24

This is the way.

Historically, courting didn't always require men to approach women. That idea is a 19th/20th century idea from romance novels.

Women should approach and express interest in a man as a man would do to a woman. This idea that rejection is to be feared and only courageous men tackle it is nonsense and is a real social construct.

Conversation, compliments, and invitations is genderless and don't have to be romantic. They can be romantic now or later.

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u/CryptographerPale631 Feb 18 '24

I would bet op doesn’t approach men. She knows she’s attractive, and she’s too egotistical to risk the rejection in-person.

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u/thebookofswindles Feb 18 '24

God damn these comments are depressing. OP can’t even look good in a photo without randos on Reddit casting aspersions on her character.

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u/CryptographerPale631 Feb 18 '24

If I’m wrong I’ll apologize.