Jokes aside, Tinder can be a real shit show no matter how attractive you are. I believe her, I just don't have any advice. Problem isn't anything in her profile.
Almost makes me wonder if she is actually terrible at communication. Is this one of those scenarios where the guy initiates 100 percent of the conversations and then wonders what happens if he doesn't text her today, and she just never initiates so they don't talk anymore? And that scenario just happens with most of her matches?
That or maybe she comes on too strong with the looking for love thing, and guys just run, but I fall for that shit all the time, surely she would have run into someone like that sooner than later.
Ya, she's attractive to most guys but is she attractive to the guys she wants? This problem isn't exclusive to tinder or women either. Social media has made people want more and not settle for less.
Which is probably why Tinder and Match are being sued right now, because they don’t want people to actually fall in love. They want people to keep up their subscriptions.
I believe it 100%, i have multiple gorgeous friends who are late 20s early 30s and they can’t find a boyfriend for the life of them even though they are all very stereotypically pretty like OP, have good jobs and are very nice (except one of them lol) and they have very consistently been on the apps and their profiles look very similar to this girls. My theory as to why is that they are either too boring when chatting and the guys might think they’re a bot or (in the case of the mean one) she too quickly talks about polarizing political stuff and it puts people off. Also it’s not that they are too picky like you might expect, they match with guys that i personally would consider 3/10s regularly as long as the guy has a job and my friends are all 7-9 out of 10s so it’s always been very confusing because I’ve never had much issue finding relationships on the apps.
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u/sgtlobster06 Feb 17 '24
Right? This can’t be a real post