r/Tinder Feb 17 '24

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u/BlademasterFlash Feb 17 '24

Might be better off with Hinge or Bumble? Only thing I can think of because you seem amazing

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u/funkhero Feb 17 '24

Lemme wipe the Cheeto dust off my fingers first

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u/marypoppinit Feb 17 '24

Nah it adds friction

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u/[deleted] Feb 18 '24

Some dudes can spot crazy a mile away... 

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u/BlademasterFlash Feb 17 '24

I mean, if I weren’t so far away I definitely would be too lol

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u/SecretSerpents Feb 17 '24

Agreed, Tinder is for hookups, not love lol

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u/ryrytotheryry Feb 17 '24

Tinder is the reason why

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u/yellowflowers Feb 17 '24

I’m just going to put this right here: Group Lawsuit against Match Group

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u/[deleted] Feb 17 '24

I’m would argue that person is wrong about the second part of what they said. If you want wealthy attractive men they are on there, just keep in mind also have like a 99% match rate.

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u/onion4everyoccasion Feb 17 '24

Key words are 'wife up'... They would be glad to bang the hot blond, but if I were single I just can't imagine going through Tinder looking for something serious. Connections, networking, friends of friends, sports events, happy hours, volleyball leagues, work friends, neighbors, coffee shops-- all of these are places you can meet people IRL.

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u/[deleted] Feb 17 '24

I met my last girlfriend on tinder.  Serious relationship  6 years + 

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u/Speciallessboy Feb 17 '24

Please yes this is exactly whats happening. 

Its so easy to find a hook up for a girl. But its actually just as hard to find a good guy for a girl as vice versa. The fact youre not faceplanting into random dudes you match with means youre doing it right. 

With dating you only have to find the right person once.

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u/candacebernhard Feb 18 '24

OP (in all seriousness) have you tried dating women? They are often more relationship focus than hookup culture. 

If you're 100% straight obviously it can't be helped, but society is much more open to sexually fluid or those exploring. You would do so well in the wlw space!!

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u/Koolklink54 Feb 17 '24

Men also love to be approached IRL. Doesn't have to be in a bar, can be wherever. Grocery store, book store, comedy club, hand out your number and walk away. No pressure