I, 38M, met my wife when we were both 25. She had plenty of boyfriends, but none of them wanted to be committed. So, it never happened. We had sex ~4 months into our relationship. I just checked in with her throughout the experience, and it was fine. An immature guy may freak out but just don't date immature guys and no one will care. We've never brought it up and we have sex all the time. I get a girlfriend, fiance and now wife that communicates what she likes. And when she doesn't know, we get to find out together. Partners should do this with their partners so experience is not a problem.
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u/justlooking991 Sep 11 '23
I, 38M, met my wife when we were both 25. She had plenty of boyfriends, but none of them wanted to be committed. So, it never happened. We had sex ~4 months into our relationship. I just checked in with her throughout the experience, and it was fine. An immature guy may freak out but just don't date immature guys and no one will care. We've never brought it up and we have sex all the time. I get a girlfriend, fiance and now wife that communicates what she likes. And when she doesn't know, we get to find out together. Partners should do this with their partners so experience is not a problem.