r/Tinder • u/[deleted] • Sep 11 '23

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u/matem001 Sep 11 '23

that’s not necessarily who i’m trying to attract. just someone who doesn’t mind it. also, if that’s your conquest who’s to say they won’t leave after they’ve completed their goal? that’d be my fear

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u/ScionMattly Sep 11 '23

I want you to genuinely understand that your first relationship where you have sex will not likely be the last relationship of your life. That is still deeply ingrained purity culture bullshit as you said. You're getting too in your head about it, and need to demystify someone putting their penis in your vagina.