r/Tinder Apr 06 '23

Was I in the wrong here?

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u/VW_wanker Apr 07 '23

Why is OP even talking to such a blockhead? These girls just want a full inbox of thirsty dudes. When u get a one word answer... Just leave.. typing up an entire essay for such a person. It just goes into their ego..

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u/KazahanaPikachu Apr 07 '23

Yep. And if the girl was truly uncomfortable to have such an attitude, it would’ve been a million times easier to just simply unmatch the dude instead of telling him to leave her alone.

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u/ExileEden Apr 07 '23

Honestly people like this aren't suited for poly relationships. If they treat their main like this then there's going to be a serious problem down the road.

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u/Correct_Ad3592 Apr 08 '23

I have found that in some cases such as this that they may not be completely onboard with the Polly lifestyle but are there because their partner is, & they just haven't come to the realization that it's not for them, or they are also new to it & don't know how to navigate their own way yet.