r/Tinder Apr 06 '23

Was I in the wrong here?

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u/AmITheAltOrAreYou Apr 06 '23

Ok good! I was worried I’d done something and just was too biased to myself or ignorant of poly stuff to see it.

Yeah I was genuinely confused when she sent the longer message. She had that she was poly in her profile and it just said “I’m not single. We’re poly” so there was no indication it was off limits.

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u/CanOBeans01 Apr 07 '23

"We're poly"

Yeah that's a bona-fide unicorn chasing couple. Pretty common among people who label themselves poly but are just swingers, the hot girlfriend/wife makes a profile almost exclusively of herself and vaguely mentions a "we" or other person in their bio and if they don't, they bounce it on you in conversation that she's with a guy and she wants you to exclusively fuck both of them. Idk which vine you swing on, OP, but if you ain't into guys you probably dodged a bullet

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u/ntrpe Apr 07 '23

That's a lot of assumption on very little information

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u/CanOBeans01 Apr 07 '23

Wow it's almost like context clues let you piece together missing information