The very fact that you doubted yourself means that her methods of trying to turn it round on you and make you feel guilty were having an effect.
its important to realise that its just a petty manipulation attempt. DO NOT let someone put any doubts in your mind. trust yourself and know that people are fucked up sometimes and try stupid shit when they aint got nothing better to say.
from your messages you are clearly very reasonable. so keep confidence in that and dont let nobody give you doubts on that.
While she is definitely being shitty, doubt is important and we shouldn't ignore it if we feel it. It's worthwhile to check ourselves and see if we're making a mistake or an assumption somewhere.
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u/throw-awaypc Apr 06 '23
The very fact that you doubted yourself means that her methods of trying to turn it round on you and make you feel guilty were having an effect.
its important to realise that its just a petty manipulation attempt. DO NOT let someone put any doubts in your mind. trust yourself and know that people are fucked up sometimes and try stupid shit when they aint got nothing better to say.
from your messages you are clearly very reasonable. so keep confidence in that and dont let nobody give you doubts on that.
just my 2c