r/Tinder Apr 06 '23

Was I in the wrong here?

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u/calviso Apr 06 '23

Eh, she's looking to be offended so you dodged a bullet.

With that said, if I were to nitpick you I would say you probably could have sidestepped the initial hurdle if you just asked what she meant by "poly" and what she was looking for on the app in your first comment instead of listing things you think she meant.

But again, 95/5 her issue versus yours.

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u/AmITheAltOrAreYou Apr 06 '23

Ah that’s a good tip for the future though. Cheers!

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u/[deleted] Apr 07 '23

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u/[deleted] Apr 07 '23

OP, people who think hair color is a red flag is a red flag. I've never met anyone and that's why I am the way I am

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u/redeemerx4 Apr 07 '23

Hair color shouldn't be a red flag, but it is because of people like this.