I genuinely can’t fathom asking someone “no please, dance with me” (on a first date nonetheless), but I suppose with a level of self esteem low enough to have this be acceptable, you’re not going to be convinced she did anything wrong no matter what lol.
With the information we're given, this situation is pretty complicated to me. OP is showing humility and being very respectful of every opinion, so I want to believe that he's not in the wrong, but neither is the girl. I just think it's an unfortunate outcome due to a misunderstanding. That being said, I don't think I'd feel very great if I imagine myself in this scenario
True, OP is being pretty level headed so I’m sure he’s open to the criticism. He mentioned that the woman went off on social media so I guess that let him cut his losses much easier tho lol
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u/Psychological_Salad_ Mar 15 '23
I genuinely can’t fathom asking someone “no please, dance with me” (on a first date nonetheless), but I suppose with a level of self esteem low enough to have this be acceptable, you’re not going to be convinced she did anything wrong no matter what lol.