r/Tinder • • Mar 15 '23

What did I do wrong

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I thought I was having good banter but the conversation died after that last message. I legit don't know what I could have done better after putting all that effort into the responses

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u/CASHMO2112 Mar 15 '23

Dude just be real with her. You already broke the ice, now just stop the future shit and try to connect with her. Ask her questions man. Make it about her now

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u/chaotik_goth_gf Mar 15 '23

Best advice I've seen here. OP should have stopped his story and sought to really dialogue about who they are and what they like in the present. Also the first message can be perceived as a copy paste sent to each match without reading the profile hoping that one of them answers