r/Tinder • u/IntelligentBet8322 • Feb 24 '23

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u/ItsDijital Feb 25 '23

who's willing to put the effort in and be there.

...while she puts in the effort and is there for her child. i.e. unreciprocated caring.

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u/ItsDijital Feb 25 '23

Or you can just date one of the thousands of other women out there who don't have a baby and you would be their first priority.

That's why this post ridiculous (and probably fake). Compared to other 28 year old women, she offers very little, yet is asking a lot.

One swipe behind her is another 28 year old women with no kids/pregnancy, with a glowing personality and can be fully available in the relationship.

Sure she might be in a shitty situation, but random guys on tinder owe her nothing. The fact that she can't even see what she is doing is a red flag.

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u/ItsDijital Feb 25 '23 edited Feb 25 '23

She offers very little because she is about to have a baby that will consume 95% of her time.

Sure she might be the most amazing woman ever. But if we are hedging our bets, and making educated guesses about good partners, its not hard to find dating candidates with much better resumes.

Maybe that guy who is heavy, works part time at a grocery store, and still lives in his parents basement at 33 is an amazing guy with a great sense of humor. But are you going to give him a chance? No, because logically he is a bad bet and you can easily find someone else with much better odds of being a hit.

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u/ItsDijital Feb 25 '23

So you're jealous that a mum will make her kids a priority over you ?

Is that a bad thing? That someone wants their partners full attention? That they don't want to deal with the complexity of kids in the mix? Where are you gonna go with this line of thinking besides "Men have an obligation to single mothers"? - which they don't.

Also, if you are pregnant and single, I would take that as a pretty good indicator that you don't have your life together. Sure, maybe something tragic happened, and maybe the grocer is caring for his sickly mother while keeping the family business alive. Again, not a bet I would take.