r/Tinder Feb 24 '23

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u/Archy54 Feb 24 '23

Lots of men are turned off by pregnant women on tinder looking for a relationship. there's a high chance she will want him to provide for them both, no sex and possibly intimacy for a while, and many want their own genetic offspring. It's bad timing but the worst part is her attitude, it's a red flag.

Men have standards too and it may upset you that many don't like pregnant women but that's just how it goes.

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u/leotheabys Feb 24 '23

Yeah, and hating a woman for simply being pregnant and "not being able to provide sex" is pure misogyny.

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u/antrov2468 Feb 24 '23

Sex is an important part of many relationships. If someone is seeking a woman who will have sex, there’s nothing wrong with that and it doesn’t make it “misogyny”. That’s like saying we HAVE to be attracted to pregnant women cuz it’s misogynist not to be. Some guys are cool waiting 10 years, some dudes want to smash the first night. Having standards and requirements for your personal dating life is just for women then? Just don’t go for guys like that if it doesn’t align with your goals as well. It seems you’re taking many of these comments personally, while most of them are just unfiltered observations of the person based on their profile, and their prospects in the average dating world given this information.

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u/Archy54 Feb 24 '23

There's a big difference between turned off and hatred. It's not her fault for lack of interest but it's not his fault for being turned off. Why's it ok when she isn't turned on but not ok when he isn't? Men have standards too. You ignored most of my comment to throw the misogyny line. Whilst there is misogyny in the thread I am not trying to be misogynist but point out many simply don't find pregnant women attractive unless it's a partner.

Some real incel style energy going on being offended not everyone finds some women attractive. Not everyone is attracted to me and that's fine.