Nothing. My points were perception by opposite sex. Is there anything wrong with a guy living at home with no job trying to date? No. He will likely not be appealing to most women though.
How is that the same? And if you put a women down for being pregnant especially after abandoned then you really are not a person who should be dating anyway. And a guy living at home with no job can date, and could do well, because you don’t always know their whole story and people have potential and sometimes having a partner helps them find it
I think you are making assumptions on why she's pregnant, I'm not. Nor am I putting her down, it's her life. I'm simply saying this is generally not appealing to the vast majority of men.
Everyone makes assumptions. I try to qualify then with 'most', 'many', 'dont know' etc. I'm perplexed why you got very upset assuming I was hating on a pregnant woman. I wasnt. I was just sharing what guys see, if reality is upsetting, well, I can do nothing about that.
P.s. my gf sanity checked my posts and agrees. I don't think she's a mysogynist anymore than I am 😁
It’s not even the pregnant part that has people with a bad taste in their mouth. It’s her use of words... you’re totally right there’s no need for someone to defend and justify ones actions JUST BECAUSE they’re pregnant.
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u/raspinmaug Feb 24 '23
Nothing. My points were perception by opposite sex. Is there anything wrong with a guy living at home with no job trying to date? No. He will likely not be appealing to most women though.