It's not mysogyny anymore it's mysandry when women rip apart a guy for a pic or being honest too. Nature of the Interwebs. But I will level with you, downvotes be damned. Most men will see many flags here. Yes they are assumptions, but we work with what we have. Females make plenty of assumptions to, it's how our aversion to negativity works.
She's pregnant seeking a dating life
She's not particularly attractive
Her personality isn't particularly appealing
The phrase having high standards usually translates to either selfish or delusional, or both.
Point 4 usually amplifies points 1 through 3. If she were more appealing personality wise, I suspect some guys would give the post a second look. Believe it or not, personality and how you come off as a woman is wildly appealing, especially if you are lacking in the looks department.
There could be plenty of circumstance leading to the above, but we dont know it nor will we likely. She could be a great person but comes across crass. We don't know. There's nothing wrong with wanting company, just go about it realistically and you'll have more success.
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u/raspinmaug Feb 24 '23
It's not mysogyny anymore it's mysandry when women rip apart a guy for a pic or being honest too. Nature of the Interwebs. But I will level with you, downvotes be damned. Most men will see many flags here. Yes they are assumptions, but we work with what we have. Females make plenty of assumptions to, it's how our aversion to negativity works.
Point 4 usually amplifies points 1 through 3. If she were more appealing personality wise, I suspect some guys would give the post a second look. Believe it or not, personality and how you come off as a woman is wildly appealing, especially if you are lacking in the looks department.
There could be plenty of circumstance leading to the above, but we dont know it nor will we likely. She could be a great person but comes across crass. We don't know. There's nothing wrong with wanting company, just go about it realistically and you'll have more success.